There are things that a man can say that will turn a woman into complete pudding and then in the next instant a guy can say something that literally makes a woman freeze up, close up shop and want to bolt to the door. So how can a guy know if what is going to say is going to ignite her flame or turn her to ice? Well for starters make sure you keep your comments positive and flattering, use a mixture of strong and soft language, when in doubt be complementary and always make sure to express how hot she makes you feel. Here are a couple go to phrases to use when your mind goes blank but you want to keep the mood hot.
When you say this to her, make sure express it like you mean it. It will give her to go ahead to take her time in ravaging each and every inch of your body with her own womanly sexy ways. You will sound like a gentleman and a lover and she will feel like she has your trust.
This statement can be interchanged with a mole or a beauty mark, anything that is unique and special to the girl you are with. She may be insecure about small things on her body so when you tell her that those small things are what you find truly beautiful she will love it.
After the two of you have engaged in some hot and sweaty between the sheets fun, the endorphins are flowing the you both are glowing from all of the passion. Tell her she looks beautiful in that moment, sweaty and panting and exhausted and she will feel like a goddess.
Say this often when you are talking to a woman during intimate moments. When you use "You" in a sentence referring to how much fun you are having or how great things feel, you empower her that she is amazing herself. Shower her with "You" statements in a sexy way and watch her confidence shine.
Encouraging statements about how good things feel when your girl is getting it on with you will help be a huge confidence boost for her in the bedroom. Any encouragement will make her feel like a sexy magician and she will wont want to stop until you cant take anymore.
Instead of asking if you can remove and article of clothing, tell her that you are going to do it. Being assertive in your statement will take the pressure off of her having to answer your question while also giving her the option to say no. It also gives you that manly edge that drives some women wild.
You want her to feel like she is not just an object you want in that moment. You want her to know that just the thought of you will send your mind into a whirlwind of naughtiness. Tell her how she makes your think dirty thoughts and she will feel like she has a hold on your fantasies.
Tell her how important it is to you that she feels every pleasure when you two are getting intimate. She will love how your put her sexual needs first and it will allow her to be more open and honest with her own sexuality making both of your experiences greater.
You want her to know that she was great in bed and that it felt great, but you don't want to make it all about your pleasure or that it was just about the sex. Telling her how amazing you think she is afterwards will encompass all of her being including her sexy skills.
Whatever stage of lovemaking you two are on, if you tell her just how good her body feels on your body in that moment she will feel like you are accepting her body as a whole. She will love knowing that just her body pleases you and everything else is icing on the cake.
While there is something sexy about rolling around on a bed under the moon light. She might also be thinking that you don't want to see her naked body and just keep thing physical. Tell her you want to lights on so you can see every inch of her face and body.
She might be wondering right after a hookup if she should start getting dressed to leave or if she would settle in to go to sleep. Let her know you want her to stay and don't ask if she wants to, make it a statement, she won't feel like you used her and you have the potential for morning sex.
Maybe she is just wearing your t-shirt, or maybe she is just wearing her underwear, but telling her she looks hot in exactly what she is wearing will make her feel effortlessly sexy, which is the ultimate goal of a man to make his woman feel that way, she will be endlessly yours.
Even if you both are exhausted from passionate sex or you both just have time for some heavy petting. Letting her know that you just can't get enough of her will assure her that she is worth more than just a one night stand, she is wanted and respected.
Sex and intimacy and relationships are fun. You want to make each other laugh and smile the whole time you two are together. Tell her how sexy her smile is, make her feel like she is walking on clouds when she is with you, the sexier she feels the sexier you two feel together.