Love can be an interesting time for a woman. Every woman wants to be in love with someone who values them and sticks by them through thick or thin. Such men are hard to find, which is why it is advised that you stick to them when you find one good guy. But, here we have 12 signs of someone who is not in love with you.
Guys may be called out often for not showing emotions, but they show their emotions as much as all women do. Thus, if you have a guy who is not showing their emotions then chances are that they don't love you at all.
A relationship is a lot more than what happens in the bed. A couple makes many memories together and what happens on the bed is just the start of it. Having someone who just comes close to you on bed is a sign that he doesn't love you.
There is a big difference between love and lust, and the earlier you understand this, the better it will be for you. If a boy just wants to be close to you in bed and doesn't respect your feelings elsewhere then there is no love here.
Once with you, the person should be giving all their attention to you without any diversification. But, if a man is still in touch with his exes and is not upfront about it with you then he just doesn't love you and you should move on.
You know that someone is not perfect for you if you feel like a stranger in front of him. Someone who doesn't take out the time to know you and find out what you like and dislike doesn't deserve your love.
The real sign of a relationship is that both of you know each other in reality and are not just doing lip service. Someone who is doing just lip service wouldn't want to know the real you and would rather keep themselves away from the action.
Someone who is just in the relationship for the fun of it and doesn't really have any concrete feelings for you, would run away from arguments. They would not want to see that side of you and would like straying away.
If your man is not here with the intentions to stay, they would not want to see your negative side. All they would want from you would be to see your good side play with it. They wouldn't want to know your negative side and help pacify them.
Someone who thinks of you as a fling and is not in love with you would not like to look into the future with you. They would only be concerned about the future and having as much fun as possible right now.
A guy who has no feelings whatsoever would not care for you, regardless of what you do for them. All they would want is the ability to have some sweet bedroom time for you. If you have any issues, they wouldn't stand by you.
The beauty of a relationship lies in spending time together. Not only do you get to know each other better this way, but there is also the off chance of you getting to delve better into each other's life. Someone who doesn't love you would spend less time with you.
The best excuse they have for not spending time with you is that they're always with their friends. They value their friends more, and you can be alerted towards a cheating prospect if they haven't introduced you to these friends.
He never seems to enjoy the moment he has with you and is instead focused on other things that you have no clue of whatsoever. He doesn't care for your emotions and is never in the moments that you enjoy.
You can tell your lover really isn't in love with you, if they don't introduce you to their family. They are secretive about their family and don't plan a meeting for both of you to meet and know each other well.
If you have a bad feeling about them and the relationship then chances are that the relationship really isn't worth it. You're just wasting your time here and it would be better if you start looking for someone who really does care for you.
