It has often been thought that there is no secret to making a guy committed to you. But, with men looking for side chicks and all, you really should be concerned about them sticking by you. Here are 15 sure shot methods you can follow to ensure that they stick by you in a relationship and don't leave you for anyone else.
To be honest, men in a relationship wouldn't ask you to do any herculean task. They would preferably want for you to just help them out with chores or anything else. If what they ask is manageable for you, just get it done with.
One thing that really pisses men off is when women don't trust them. The only thing men want in life is to be trusted by the woman in their life. If their girl doesn't trust them, they would never want to be committed to her.
If you really want them to commit to the relationship then the key aspect would be to keep all things light and fun. Men don't want to go in a commitment with someone who is depressed or is going bonkers every other minute.
One of the easiest and most effective tricks from the book is to be less interested in a guy and have them work their way towards getting into a commitment. This would make things better and even let you know how interested they are.
One of the key aspects of getting a guy to commit to you is to make their friends fall in love with you. If their friends start loving you, they would start singing songs of how good you are and how both of you would be perfect.
If your guy does something out of the ordinary to please you, then the best thing you could do is to reward them. Start rewarding them to ensure that they are interested at all times and are willing to go in a commitment.
The whole point of being in a relationship is that both of you have integrated into each other's life. Thus, if you really want to make them fall in love with you, then integrate into their life and make them realize how important you are to them.
This is not just about the money. Have the guy invest his time and efforts in securing whatever he has with you. Ask him to occasionally pick you up and come over for a drink. If he has invested more time and effort, he'll be more committed.
If you want your guy to become committed with you then the key lies in becoming scarce and holding back a little. Just let them realize how valuable you are to them and how being committed would be the best option moving forward.
If everything is put on a silver platter, your man wouldn't feel the need to be in a commitment. Be mysterious about what you are doing, where you are and everything. Once he starts worrying about you, you can have a better commitment.
If both of you have reached a stage where commitment is only a stone's throw away then talking about it would be the best way to move on with the deal. Discuss the chances of commitment and how it would benefit both of you.
You wouldn't want to empty your fortune over a trip across the world, but going away for a weekend or a week would be a good way to help them realize what they are missing out on. You would probably return back to them on their knees.
Every man has some uncertainties to them. The more you learn about these uncertainties, the more actively you could participate in countering their problems and finding a solution. It is your stance towards their uncertainties that makes the ultimate difference.
Just saying I love you wouldn't cut the deal. You need to show that you love them through your actions. From smooching when they want to, to snuggling during the night and standing for them when they need you; show that your love is there.
There is nothing that turns a man on more than a woman who is relaxed when he is anxious. Being relaxed through their anxiousness would mean that you can help them understand how your presence is calming not destructive.