This is another problem that usually happens more often in men than in women. There are many guys that may be smart and ambitious, but when it comes to emotional intelligence, they may be severely lacking. For example, you may be sad about something, and all your female friends are going to notice this within one second of seeing you. Your boyfriend or husband, on the other hand, might not notice this for hours (or ever).
Sadly, there is no way to "fix" this, as that is just the way how some guys are. What you can do to fix this problem is to either decide to keep your female friends for the more emotional parts of your life, or to look for a different type of guy, although that might be the worse and more heartbreaking option to choose.