It was clear by the groom's decision to out the wrong-doers a lot of embarrassment went around the room. The bride was horrified to be caught, the groom was devastated by the news and the men standing were left with unhappy wives themselves.
But the bride did it to herself due to her indiscretions that were exposed during the wedding feast. Then of course, there was the eight men called out on what they did for all to see. Can you imagine what the tension felt like after the groom left? Only our imaginations can fill that gap.