So we've accepted that both men and women enjoy sex, and that having more of it is good for your relationship. We hope you're on board with that. Now take it a step further; don't let him be the one who always gets things started.
You'll struggle to find a man who doesn't enjoy a sexy surprise, and if you do, you don't really want him anyway. So, take the opportunity to surprise him and blow his mind. Let him come home and find you naked. Use the kitchen table for something other than putting food on it. Get creative and play dress up. Ask him what his fantasies are - and every man has them, believe us - and act them out. And then let him have fun helping you act out your own!