Most men want to be with a real woman. And that doesn't mean one who's caked in makeup or wearing clothes that cling to every inch of their body, it means one who makes him feel like a man. Not many men will tell you this, but masculinity can be insecure, and when a man feels emasculated, it damages his sense of self-worth.
Men feel most at ease in a relationship with a woman who knows the difference between male and female gender roles. Ask him to do the man's work around the house. Demand that he does the heavy lifting for you. Be delicate for him, and don't be afraid to show vulnerability. Make him work for you; and the more he feels macho, the more he'll appreciate you for it.