Ever done a hard job at work that you didn't get thanked for? Or stayed late, worked unpaid overtime and pulled out all the stops to meet a deadline, only for other people to treat it as no big deal? Feels terrible, doesn't it? And it's every bit as true in a relationship - especially for men, who can easily get a bruised ego if they feel undervalued or under appreciated.
If your man is going the extra mile for you, make sure you know how much you appreciate him for it. If he's working extra hard to bring in money for a holiday, tell him how much you value what he does for your relationship. Don't take him for granted and show warmth and affection for all the little things he does to put a smile on your face. He'll take encouragement from it, and he'll carry on doing it.