Life doesn't always go your way, and the hard times can get anyone down, but you can't control that. What you can control is your attitude to it, and whether that glass is half empty or half full. People flock to positivity, and men are looking for someone who can bring happiness into their life. Who wants to set up home with someone who's always on the lookout for negatives?
Laugh at life when it's funny. Find the silver lining around every cloud. Keep the sparkle in your eye and share it with those around you; you never know who's falling in love with it. Be the optimist, the dreamer of big dreams and the hoper of high hopes. Bring cheer to a man's heart, and he'll keep hold of it and bring it right back to you.