At this point, it's pretty embarrassing if you can't confidently say where the clitoris is if you're a teenage or adult man. We have plenty of resources to find it, including asking women. Like, women have literally written hundreds of in depth articles about how to pleasure them, yet so many men can't do it. That's not to say every woman gets pleasure the same way, but there are some commonalities. The clitoris will rarely go wrong, to say the very least.
Do yourself, and every woman you come into sexual contact with, a favor and learn about the clitoris. If you think you know, go look it up again just to make sure. About halfway are probably wrong, or know less than you think you do. The ladies can thank me later.