Relationships can be very difficult, and getting married isn't an answer to this difficulty. When a relationship is great, it's the best thing in the world--but you should never settle for a situation that makes you feel bad. If your husband behaves in one of these 15 ways, it might be time for a serious conversation to take place between the two of you, because everything on this list is a terrible way for someone to act towards someone they love.
The role of a good husband is to be your partner in life, and be by your side. If your partner constantly makes you feel alone, and acts distant, they're not doing their job as your husband and life partner.
A bad behavior for a husband to have is to make you feel bad for feeling bad. You are entitled to your own feelings, and if he makes you feel like you're insane or that your opinions don't matter, it's not a good sign.
We can all be critical from one time to another, and sometimes it comes from a place of good intentions. However, if someone is overly critical and is constantly bringing you down, they definitely aren't acting in the way that a good husband should.
An ugly behavior for anyone to put on to another person is being overly controlling and attempting to make you act in a way that benefits them. You're your own person, not someone else's property and you should be free to make your own choices.
If your husband is constantly treating you like an object, instead of a complex person with your own thoughts, feelings and ambitions--it might be time to ask him to reevaluate his behavior. If he doesn't respect you, it will be hard to make your relationship work.
An ugly thing to do is to make someone feel like they are not worth your time. Your husband of all people should respect you by trying to make time for you, your needs and to be in your company.
It can be ugly for adults to be overly crude or foul in their actions and their words. Your husband should respect you as an adult and try to act like one as well by behaving himself in public and not carrying out juvenile actions that are beneath him.
If your husband would rather be with other women than you, and makes that clear to you--you should reevaluate the status of your marriage. You should be the person in the center of his eye, and you should know how he feels.
If your husband is constantly holding you to unrealistic expectations and making you feel like you're beneath what you want, then it should be clear that he is treating you badly. Your husband should understand that at the end of the day, you're only human.
If your husband is constantly impatient and ready to yell at you, you should ask him to try to manage his anger for the sake of your relationship. It is not okay to make people scared of your emotional outbursts.
This is one of the most awful behaviors on this list. Your husband should never act in a physically negative way towards you, and if he does it is time to get out of there. You should never feel physically threatened by someone you trust.
If your husband is constantly jetting off and leaving you behind, it might be because he doesn't consider you as an important part of his life. You are his other half, not a "ball and chain," and he should know it.
Cheating is a terrible, awful thing to put someone you love through. If you cheat on your wife you should own up to it, admit your mistakes and deal with the consequences of hurting someone that you claim to be in love with, and promised to be loyal to.
If you can't trust your husband, how can you hope to be in a happy, functional relationship with him? Your husband should be honest with you when it counts, and you should know that he isn't trying to decieve you.
If your husband is constantly manipulating you, or making you feel confused in favor of his agenda and him getting what he wants, then you should let him know that he is being awful. He should work on not trying to trick you.
Celebrities are no strangers to changing their looks for a role. And in some instances, they have to get pretty extreme. From 500-calorie-a-day diets to drinking pints of ice cream, Actors and actresses know what it takes to change their bodies in preparation for a new film.
Charlize Theron is no stranger to gaining and losing weight for movie roles, as we remember her transformation in Monster. Charlize Theron gained close to 50 pounds for her role as Marlo in Tully. Theron said that “for the first time in my life I was eating so much processed foods and I drank way too much sugar. … I remember having to set my alarm in the middle of the night in order to just maintain the weight.”
You’re used Chris Hemsworth's hulk-like figure in Thor, but In the Heart of the Sea required a totally different diet. The movie required the cast members lose a ton of weight to make their stuck-at-sea plight more believable. Chris Hemsworth said there were days when all he ate was one boiled egg, a couple of crackers, and a celery stick.
Anne Hathaway wanted to get serious for her role in Les Misérables, as she was playing Fantine, a starving prostitute with tuberculosis. So Anne Hathaway went on a diet of “rabbit food” to drop 25 pounds. Hathaway explained her diet was essentially just starving herself, but she didn’t want to give details, as she doesn’t want to encourage anyone to copy her emaciated look. She did note that she “just had to stop eating for a total of 13 days shooting,” however. And at one point, her bones became so frail that she reportedly broke her arm.
Matthew McConaughey's portrayal of Ron Woodruff in Dallas Buyers Club, a man with HIV/AIDS, was spot-on, earning him the title of best actor at the Oscars. But it also required a serious physical transformation. Matthew McConaughey said he lost 38 pounds for the role. During filming, he said he lost a lot of energy from eating so little — and he hit plenty of plateaus along the way. Finally, with a strict diet, he got down to 143 pounds. And while he did cardio to help with the weight loss, he said it was 90% what he was eating and portion size.
Hilary Swank had to put on 23 pounds of pure muscle for her role as a boxer in Million Dollar Baby. The process doesn’t sound easy, however. “I started working out five hours a day — I had to eat 210 grams of protein a day,” Swank said. She also mentioned that she had to consume 60 egg whites per day, and when that proved too difficult, she had to drink them. And to keep the muscle on, she would get up and drink protein shakes in the middle of the night.