15 Signs He Is Not In Love With You And Is Just Using You


Lifestyle | By Cole Damon | February 20, 2018

There is nothing that hurts more than loving a guy who really doesn't care for your emotions and is hell bent on just using you for what they need you for. But, what hurts more is not being able to identify the cheat before. Here we have 15 ways through which you can know the guy is not interested in you.

He Constantly Asks Favors

The number one sign of a guy looking to use you us that the only thing he wants is favors from you. He is not willing to give anything back to you in return and that is not only shocking, but also really demeaning of them.

Only Calls At Night

Someone looking to use you would give you the excuses that they are busy during the day and would only call you late during the night when they have nothing substantial to do, or want to get in on some action from your side.

Doesn't Get Protective

The number one sign of a person who is serious about a girl is that he gets protective and does all that he can to ensure that she remains safe and happy. If your man is not being protective, then he's not happy.

He Procrastinates

When a guy really loves you, he ensures that the long term or short term plans that you have together are met without any hassle. But, when they don't have any feelings, they're hell bent on doing other things and just procrastinate with you.

Disregards Your Feelings

When a guy is using you or doesn't value your feeling or attention, they will drop your feelings like a cannonball and wouldn't care about what happens to you or the feelings that you have about the situation.

Hot and Cold

When a guy is not interested anymore and just wants to finish the relationship, then they start being inconsistent in the way they treat you. One day, they will come across as Mr. Right, but the next day they would be back at their usual banter.

Acts Differently

You know a guy is not serious about you, when he starts acting differently in the presence of his friends. All such guys want is a way to get you in bed, and they're not looking to confess their ambitions in front of their friends.

Lies to You

While men usually don't consider lying in relationships to be a big problem, but men that have no intentions of hitting it off with you with you will lie at any chance they get. They're not interested and lying is just a way of showing their disinterest.

Avoids Deep Conversations

A man, who wants to do nothing with your future and their role in it, would avoid deep conversations that you try having them. They would only run away when the topic for deep conversations is opened, which shows their lack of interest.

Different Directions

You know you're both moving in different directions when the hopes you had out of someone hold no value anymore. They disregard you as a person and don't want to do anything with your aims or ambitions in life.

Disappoints You

If a man keeps on disappointing you over time, there are high chances that he is doing this purposely to make you feel down and disappointed. These men don't want to see you happy and are hell bent on spoiling your days.

Not There

If your man is not there whenever you need them, then chances are that they are not interested about building a future with you. Such men, don't really care about your feelings and all they want is a chance in bed.

No Respect

The foundation for every exemplary relationship is set through the respect that both partners have for each other. If a man doesn't respect you or your feelings, then they're not interested and you should look for other options.

Unhappy

They make you unhappy most of the time, and you feel that your mood is suffering because of their constant rants and actions. You want to put an end to the relationship, but stop because you don't want to take drastic measures so rapidly.


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