When He Says 'I Love You' Does He Really Mean It?

Cole Damon February 27th 2018 Lifestyle
Love can be funny business for everyone that is involved in the process. There are a lot of promises made and shared, which is why it can be a bit hard to tell which promise is going to last and which isn't. Here we have a list of signs to find out if he doesn't love you, even after saying the three magic words.
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He Doesn't Remember Things
The best part about love is that you remember all the things that are shared between the couple. However, if the guy you are with doesn't remember the things you share then the three words he said were just formality.
He Compares You
Instead of making changes in his own demeanor, a guy who really doesn't love you will keep comparing you with other woman. He would not make changes in himself, but would always find ways to compare you with others.
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Avoids Physical Contact
Every form is love is void without some necessary physical contact in it. Physical contact really is necessary for making love work, and without the presence of physical contact love really can be a bit incomplete for the two involved.
Doesn't Respect Things
One of the key parts in love is to like and respect the things that are close to the person you're in love with. If you like watching a certain series, but he doesn't comprehend your choice then he really didn't make a promise.
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Not Interested in Problems
A relationship is not all fun and games; there are many problems involved as well, and the best kind of partners work towards solving these problems for moving onwards. If he doesn't solve problems then you know what's up.
Problems to Fight
If you see any problem in their behavior or the relationship in general and work towards solving it, it almost always turns into a fight for both of you. He cannot take any criticism from you and answers back.
No Time Management
Being in a relationship means requires both the partners to give each other sufficient time. If this time is not given, then issues can rise up going down the line. If he isn't making you a priority then you can tell that his promises were void.
Changing You
Instead of working on himself and implementing changes in his own behavior he is constantly working towards changing you and altering the way you go about your own life. He changes you to approve of his bullshit ways.
No Help
Whenever you need help with your life, you may not be able to find the person standing by you. If he really does love you, he would by you at all moments in time, good and bad. You can tell if he's interested through this way.
Constantly on Phone
Despite the limited hang-outs you have together, he doesn't give you the attention you need when you guys are together. He is always on his phone when you guys are together and barely pays attention to what you say.
His Goals are Different
His goals are different to yours and he seems to be barely interested in aligning them together. All he is interested in is the short-term contact you have and there is no longevity in the planning he is doing for you.
Doesn't Trust You
While he wants all the trust in the world from your side, he is not willing to give you the trust you require. He doesn't factor in for your requirements at all and doesn't care about what you may or may not require.
Puts You Down
A guy who loves you will try his best to ensure that he raises your standards and makes you gear up to become a better person. If he really doesn't love you, he will keep demeaning you and may lower your standards eventually. That is not best for your relationship.
Never Says Sorry
Saying sorry doesn't kill anyone, which is why it can do wonders in a relationship. Anyone can make mistakes in a relationship, which is why sorry is the magic word. If he doesn't say sorry then you can to pack bags eventually.
Wants Space
While he is constantly budging into your personal space, he requires some space for himself all the time. He doesn't seem to be worried about your needs at all, and is only worried about going according to his own needs.

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